- The person you will marry is a human being
*Break off that unholy relationship
- God will not do a quick work in unrighteousness
Breaking the Siege of Marital Delay
40th Anniversary of the Liberation Mandate.
Marriage has been God’s plan from the beginning.
Marriage is not a product of human desire but a product of God’s design
Genesis 2:18, James 1:17, Psalm 84:11
Marriage is a good thing because it is from God. However some are not in families because they have been bound in chains (Psalm 68:6, Obadiah 1:17)
MARITAL BREAKTHROUGH IS YOUR HERITAGE
Understanding Your Redemptive Rights to Marital Breakthrough
Genesis 1:26-28, John 10:10
God already concluded your marital settlement at creation.
Whatever is contrary to a full life is contrary to your redemptive rights.
Our Father is the marriage Maker, you are not permitted to be a marriage beggar.
Your Father cannot be a manufacturer of what you lack.
There is no second born in God’s family. We are all first borns. You belong to the order of the first.
- That marital delay is broken forever.
HOW TO POSITION YOURSELF FOR THE FULL DELIVERY OF YOUR MARITAL TESTIMONY
- RENEW YOUR MIND WITH THE WORD OF GOD (Romans 12:2, 2 Corinthians 3:6)
When you feast on the Word of God, you will tear the covering off (Isaiah 25:5-7)
It is not effort you use to marry, it is favour (Proverbs 18:22).
Marriage is not about beauty contest, relationship skills, personality traits, it is a product of favour.
Favour is the currency of marriage.
Ask yourself this question:
What am I anchoring my marital testimony on?
Favour has a way of accelerating speed.
-Favour that brings divine speed, I see it coming your way in the name of Jesus.
-Every siege upon your life will be destroyed in Jesus name.
Your mind must be renewed with the Word of God. Church Gist. The more you experience something, the more you expect it. Our minds are conditioned by our experiences.
Go back to scriptures.
God’s Word is superior to our experiences.
-Where people asked questions of mockery, they will start asking questions of inquiry
“What is happening, no one is getting married?” (mockery)
It will now be “What is happening, everybody is getting married?” (inquiry)
Settle down with God’s Word, don’t give excuse for delay.
Settle down with God’s Word and you will experience it.
That it has taken this long, does not mean it will take long.
Now is the time, Now is the day (2 Corinthians 6:2).
Stop taking human statements as superior to God’s Word.
Only you can stop your marital testimony because it will come according to God’s Word.
- THE FORCE OF SPIRITUAL STEWARDSHIP
Matthew 6:33, 2 Chronicles 15:3-6, 12-15
Advancing God’s Kingdom decorates your destiny. One of the groups of people that God focuses His favour on are His servants – Psalm 102:13-15
- You can’t favour His cause and He won’t favour your life.
Favour does not mean everybody likes you. Favour is when those who need to like you, like you.
Everybody liking you is Personality Trait.
When favour comes from God, it naturally attracts men (Luke 2: 40).
When it comes from divinity, it will attract humanity.
-That person that is meant for you, God will remove their rest today
Naomi told Ruth, “that man won’t rest until he finishes the matter” (Ruth 3:18)
The secret of Ruth was that she followed Naomi, serving God (Ruth 1:16)
-The one that will be connected to you, their rest will be withdrawn today.
- ENGAGE THE PRAYER OF FAITH
Your prayers must be faith loaded. Don’t pray in doubts. Doubt means double mindedness.
Some people will say, “I believe but what if?”
Most Christians don’t pray in faith, that’s why they are surprised when they see the answers:
“I just prayed a short prayer ooo”
Why do you pray if you are not expecting it?
They even have a song to show they were not expecting the answers to their prayers:
🎼I didn’t know you will answer me this way🥁
- REMAIN SPIRITUALLY SENSITIVE
Your Marital Delivery requires sensitivity
1 Corinthians 2:14
It is your sensitivity that determines your precision and your precision determines your destination.
The Spirit of God will be leading you to take certain steps: Be sensitive.
Many Christians are frustrated on the basis of missed instructions.
There are many that judge everything by the eye:
“Look at him! Is this one a marriage candidate?”
“God forbid, face another direction”
Marriage is not about the present, it is about the journey.
Be sensitive to the steps God is commanding you to take. As you engage, God will direct your steps.
Two stones to engage for your Marital testimony
- God will finish the work in a short time
-By Shiloh 2021, you are colourfully married.
-The Word of God concerning your marital settlement shall not be prolonged.
-I decree your marital testimony settled.
-Even today, some of you will get marriage proposals.
There are some associations and relationships you need to break now, today. All those unholy relationships cut them off.
God will only do His quick work in righteousness, not in unrighteousness.
There is this useless mentality, “a bird in hand is better than two in the bush.” The person you will marry is a human being not a bird.