- Deal with the third party
Christmas is a time to celebrate goodwill to all men and peace. A time to reflect on and reconcile broken relationships. One thing I have found out is this, where there is a divine relationship that breaks down a lot of the time there is a third party fueling the strife. Scripture says “cast out the scorner and strife will cease”.
Maybe you should look away from the person you have an issue with and consider “maybe there is a hidden third party benefiting from all this”. It just might be a sure way to understanding what really is going on and finding a path to peace.

